Spiritual Life Coaching with Pain-Body Work can supply you with the tools you’ll need to heal your pain-body and stop attracting bullies into your life. Bullying demonstrates many shadow and pain-body aspects, including hatred, intolerance, anger, obsession, and harassment.
Between the ages of six and ten, my stepfather would use the switch of a willow tree or a two-by-four to “discipline” me. I never became a bully myself, but I did become a victim of bullying. Every school year, from the third grade until my junior year in high school, I was verbally harassed, picked on, or physically abused by other boys in school. It also didn’t help that I was an average of two years younger than my fellow classmates and therefore always physically smaller.
The pain-body predator always requires a pain-body prey to feed on. The predator and prey pain-bodies, therefore, become a hand-in-glove fit for one another in the duality energy exchange of each bully attack. Even though I never retaliated my pain onto another during all those years in school, the pain from my primal trauma remained strongly imprinted inside my emotional body. As a result, I unconsciously projected my anger and fear outwardly. That energy imprint is what attracted the bullies to me. Fear energy can only attract like fear energy. This is called the law of attraction.
According to the Center for Disease Control and Prevention, suicide is the third leading cause of death among young people, resulting in about 4400 deaths in the U.S. per year. A study in Britain found that at least half of suicides among young people are related to bullying, and that 10 to 14 year old girls may be at a higher risk. According to the Pacer Center for bullying prevention, one in three students between the ages of 12 and 18 have been either taunted, pushed, shoved, tripped, or spit on, and about 160,000 students in the U.S. miss class each day just to avoid bullies. Bullies demonstrate the aspect of the pain-body that gleans pleasure out of hurting others.
The saying goes, “Sticks and stones may be break my bones but names can never hurt me.” Well, teen movie star and singer, Demi Lovato disagrees. In fact, she dropped out of public school to become home-schooled just because of bullying. The verbal abuse that she endured for years prompted her to finally draw the line and protect herself. Demi told us about her suffering in a September 7, 2010 CNN interview, saying, “There were things that were said that still affect me…and cause problems for me that I suffer with to this day…” Demi said that she overcame her abuse by putting all her energy into the things that she loves rather than fighting back. She admitted that it was very difficult to overcome and turn the other cheek.
Just as a physical punch is energy released and received, a verbal punch is energy released and received. The verbal attacks from bullies are just as violent as a physical attack because the victim will repeat that verbal message a million times in their head, over and over again, for years on end. This negative energy is what fuels the pain-body and strengthens it.
Over time, it may become too intolerable for the victim to live inside of their own body, because they are in pain all of the time. This continuous pain is why so many pain-bodies drive their hosts to suicide. Pain-Body Work by a Spiritual Life Coach can help the bully victim to become fully aware of their own pain-body and subsequently transcend it.
Personal Life Coach, Jason Lincoln Jeffers is the founder of The Art of Transformation, a company dedicated to teaching Self Realization to the masses. His Personal Life Coaching program uniquely combines spiritual wisdom with self transcendence, holistic wellness coaching, life path astrology, pain-body counseling, heart-based manifestation, and relationship coaching.