Most Law of Attraction techniques for manifesting a fabulous love life include regular visualization, collecting images or creating “vision boards” that reflect our desires, making space for someone new in our lives, scripting about our partner as if they’re already here, etc.While these processes help bring our dreams of love to reality, there are other steps required to allow your ideal partner to appear. If you’re serious about getting the love life you want, follow these six tips:
Desire and Desperation – You need to let go of the desperation,While desire is a sacred energy, an energy of creation, desperation is just the opposite, a destructive energy. When desire is unfulfilled the void is taken over by desperation. While desire is a pure and good energy, desperation is a powerful negative energy. Desire creates those vibes in you to attract, desperation creates just the opposite vibes, to repel. When you fell in love with that special person, the sacred seed of desire was sown in you. Due to whatever reasons when that desire was unfulfilled desperation crept in. So the first step is remove that desperation. Clear all desperation.
If you’re in a dissatisfying relationship now, stop pigeon-holing your partner. When we’re not happy with a current relationship, we often box our partners in without realizing it. We think of them as who they have been, rather than allowing a mental space for who they might be.As long as we hold a mental image of them as the person we aren’t happy with, they continue to show up that way. Give them room to be who they are capable of being by entertaining higher thoughts and expectations of them. People live up to and down to your expectations!
Have you figured Cynthia’s primary problem in attracting love? She has expressed what she wants and in the next statement countered her desires by sending signals of what she doesn’t want. This happens so often for most of us, we hardly notice.This is where you need to look if you’re one of the singles who haven’t had lasting love attraction success. Find the incongruity in your thoughts and feelings. Keep your attention on what you want. Watch for thoughts that take you down the path of anxiety, frustration, low self-confidence, and dread.
Love others the way you want to be loved. To create strong vibrational alignment with the relationship you desire, love others the way you want to be loved. Unconditionally, without reservation, openly – however it is you want to be loved – offer it to someone else. It’s another powerful way to create alignment, and guess what – it feels good too! Finally, let go of what’s not working in your life. In order for good things to happen (like getting the love life you want), you have to feel good. Eliminate what’s bringing you down; stop putting up with the things you’re tolerating. Whether it’s a job, bad habit, apartment, relationship – whatever doesn’t feel good needs to be remedied. Creating a vacuum in your life allows the Universe to fill it with something better. This action item alone can open the window of opportunity that allows an avalanche of good things to come your way!
Law of Attraction Love.In using the law of attraction to attract love, you must have a clear vision of what you want in your ultimate relationship. We’re talking details here, not generalities. And if you don’t define exactly what you want, you may end up with a prince that turns into a toad or a witch disguised as a princess.Attracting The Prince or Princess.The thing to realize about Law of Attraction Love is that you will be attracting to you exactly how you feel about yourself. How you feel about yourself, how much you love yourself—will be mirrored to you by the person you attract. So it is very important that you…
Love Yourself First.Every relationship we have, be they the ones from work, play, our communities or our private lives–all of these relationships reflect back to us the love we give ourselves. They will tell you or not whether you are loving yourself first.While this may seem selfish, it is imperative if you are going to partner with someone else. If you don’t love yourself, how can you love another? If you don’t love yourself, how can they love you? When you are in a relationship, you will find that the way that person loves you is a direct reflection of how you feel about yourself.
Imagine a pink ball of energy in between your hands in which you see you already have the relationship of your choice. In this ball you can see you and your lover. This ball can only contain pure and good love energy. Note the words, the thoughts, the kind of relationship you both have in this ball. Now let go of the pink ball. Let it flow away in the Universe.Let go of any attachment. And if you do it right there will be no attachment now because you are already in a field where you can FEEL the feelings of the relationship and loving your lover. In case there are any doubts Affirm to yourself, “I surrender to my divine light”. “I only have love and gratitude for my divine light”.
Remember this very clearly Intention Manifestation can ONLY and ONLY happen when the feelings vibrational level is high. Desperation is like a deep well, it has a -ve vibration. Love and Gratitude have the highest vibration.If you do this right your emotions at this point of time should be: zero desperation. You will wonder where it has disappeared? extremely happy because you have created a beautiful relationship and seen and felt it so vividly,a perfect happy relationship between you and the Universe where you only and only have Thank You’s for the Universe.Your perfect relationship will manifest in all certainty. 60,000 thoughts a day is your thought karma. If Love and Gratitude is even in 80% of this thought karma you cannot imagine what a beautiful relationship you will create, far beyond your imagination.