Every man looks out for a tip or two, when it comes to dating. It doesn’t matter whether you’re a teenager or someone in their thirties, if you’re not tasting success at dating, you’re doing it wrong. The sad fact is that most of us aren’t successful. Why? We don’t know anything at all about female psychology and how it works. Thus, we aren’t really successful on dates.
This article will try to shed some light on some excellent dating tips while at the same time telling you the things you must avoid.
Confidence is one area where almost everyone lacks. Females like guys who are confident. Even those who are actually confident of themself and their abilities don’t portray anything as such when talking to girls. Wealth and looks are often considered to be the most important factors. I think otherwise. Confidence is the most important factor, from what I’ve seen.
Think of a situation when you meet a girl. Do you show that you’re desperate to talk to her, to date her etc? You’re never going to be successful with this approach. Dating expert Neil Strauss suggests that one should be attentive and caring and at the same time not desperate.
You might have to make subtle changes to your lifestyle to see your confidence grow. This is a vicious circle – the more successful you are, the higher your confidence gets. You will notice positive results almost immediately if you make some positive changes to your lifestyle.
Ensure that you’re familiar with the likes and the dislikes of the girl. If she likes guys who are decent, pull the chair for her, do so. Do not drink if she doesn’t like you drinking. Be attentive in all cases.
Apart from these things, there are a few mistakes that you don’t want to commit. Far too often, in an effort to come across as someone who doesn’t need the girl, they just ignore the girl. This is a horrible approach. You need to make sure that you aren’t ignoring her, in any case.
How you dress also leaves a lasting impact on her. Not just your outfit but also the small things such as the cologne you wear. If you want to be successful with girls, these are some of the tips you need to follow.