Success in a relationship is not a matter of chance. People live a happy life because they decided for it, and not because someone or something did it for them. Winning the heart of the person you want in your life may take time, but is never impossible. The universal laws of attraction can bring about such a positive outlook in life provided that you keep an open mind. It is said to have changed a lot of lives for the better, and there are ways to make it work for you too.
As outlined in The Secret, the law of attraction essentially decrees that ‘like attracts like’. More specifically, this means that your mindset, thoughts and feelings establish your reality and influence the events that you experience in your life. For example, someone who thinks optimistically will attract positive energy, drawing positive things into their life that is in harmony with them. On the other hand, a pessimistic thinker attracts negative things, as their negative thoughts generating bad results.
In this way, the law of attraction is always moving in a tide of motion, with an individual dictating their reality through their internal thoughts. Learning how to use the law of attraction and how to apply this secret to achieve a more positive reality has enabled many people to achieve success. We see various ordinary people who breakthroughs and achieve great success. You too can discover how to apply the secret of law of attraction to ultimately improve the circumstances of your life and to achieve the success that you dream about.
Unfortunately, this book is not delivering the complete process that is needed to use the laws of attraction. The information that is missing from The Secret is preventing many readers from getting the desired results after following the principles of the law.
The second phase of applying the law of attraction is to believe that the universe will answer your desires. The law of attraction will answer your needs, and you must truly believe this. So often that people don’t have faith in getting what they want, and let the doubts or unworthiness slips in. The degree of believe has to be strong and to the extent of believing you already get what you wish to have, be the person that you wanted to be and living the life that you dream about. Believing that you have already received it and you will be rewarded. This strong believes must be able to create feeling and make you feel it. It is essential to feel exactly how you have achieved your dreams to manifest the things that you want in your life.
But, The Secret’s Law of Attraction doesn’t work this way. Even though you are encouraged to maintain a positive attitude, believe in your success, have confidence and so on, those positive thoughts definitely will not send out magical brainwave frequencies to change the realities of life. There is no doubt that you will have similar experiences to the millions of people who did not get the desired results from this book.You may ask yourself this question if you believe in the Law of Attraction but have not had the results you wished for. I know I have had my doubts from time to time… being able to manifest small things here and there but never achieving the level of success I had hoped for. I often wondered why could I think of a friend one minute and have her phone an hour later, but when it came to manifesting large sums of money I failed miserably. In fact, just the other day I thought “um I need to get a new headlight” and as I thought to myself “I haven’t had anyone tell me it’s out for a while”, low and behold within a half an hour of having that thought a women yelled out her window to let me know my driver side headlight was burned out! That to me is the Law of Attraction working. Some may say… well that’s just coincidence and not the Law of Attraction but I say different.
If you are familiar with the Law of Attraction then you know that this Law is in fact a scientific law stating that “LIKE” attracts “LIKE”, so in other words we are like a magnet and whatever we think about in our minds we will attract to ourselves.For instance, focus on something positive and we attract positive things, focus on something negative and we attract negative things. Seems simple enough, so why do so many people struggle with this?
In 2006, with the release of the book, The Secret, I started my journey in learning about and applying the Law of Attraction. Even though it has been six years and the buzz of The Secret has died down, I study something about it everyday.As I listened to people talk about the Law of Attraction, I was soon after introduced to Dr. Thurman Fleet’s Stickperson diagram. What in essence Dr. Fleet demonstrated with his Stickperson was that our thoughts, create our feelings, which causes us to act, and that is how we produced our results.The Stickperson changed my life so much I wanted to teach it. But the sources that I thought would certify me to do so wanted between $15,000 to $20,000 to do it. I decided why not go to the actual source and I contacted Dr. Fleet’s Concept Therapy Institute.Dr. Fleet’s course of study cost me $300 dollars per course of which there were 9 and the teacher’s training course. So for a total of $3000 (over time) I was able to learn and teach the same material from the source rather than an “interpretation of the source” and at 70% less cost. I used the Law of Attraction to make this happen.
So what is the Law of Attraction. The best definition I have come across to this date is this: You attract into your life the things, circumstances, and conditions that correspond to the nature of your dominant and habitual thoughts and beliefs in both your conscious and subconscious mind.To consciously experience anything in your life you must really, really desire it – in fact another way of saying it would be that you “need it” Need I believe is stronger than desire. When you need something there is a “purpose” for it. When it has a big enough purpose it becomes a necessity.
You must learn to bring the energy of your thoughts from the conscious mind into the subconscious mind. This is why the need or purpose needs to be so strong. Once there, the subconscious take it and runs with it manifesting itself in the body where action takes place and causes our results.Another way of stating this is called Creative Visualization. It is the basic technique that you positively and effectively reprogram your subconscious mind and attract more things and circumstances that you constantly choose.Study the Laws of the Universe (perpetual transmutation, relativity, vibration, polarity, rhythm, cause and effect, and gender). I used them in my articles on public speaking. The Law of Attraction is manifest through the Laws of the Universe.