When you align your will with a force that is infinitely greater than your ego, you align your Self with true power. Because the ego always comes equipped with a “self destruct” mechanism, the dysfunction of the ego will inevitably result in some form of suffering. So, at the end of the day, when you are ego-identified, you will be doing everything the “wrong way.”
Authentic power comes from your connectivity with the formless, non-temporal realm of pure consciousness, not the ego. It won’t matter how much you achieve or acquire in life, when you’re in the pursuit of power for the sake of feeling superior over others, you will only be living out the desires of your pseudo self. This is why egoic power is frequently followed by corruption.
Self transcendence online coaching can empower you to get out of your head and into your heart. By acting from heart-centered spontaneous right action, you are incapable of seeking violent retaliation against a bully because your entire being is grounded in peace. By allowing the mind to follow the heart, you become enveloped in compassion for your abuser or oppressor. This does not mean allowing them to continue to abuse you. Contrarily, becoming heart-centered also means drawing a line in the sand and saying “no” to anyone who does not respect you or your wishes. It means protecting the Self at all costs.
If you are playing a victim to life, then you are deeply unconscious. You’ve already given up on life, and have declared that life, another person, or some other force beyond yourself has somehow conquered you. In a way, you’ve sacrificed your soul to a phantom “other” that doesn’t even exist. In truth, victimization is the ego’s way of attracting the spotlight to itself. It is unconsciously played out by the ego for the sole purpose of extracting attention and sympathy from people around you.
When an egocentric person meets someone for the first time, he will silently be asking himself, “In what ways can I benefit from this person?” In other words, the ego is always on the take.
Becoming consciously aware of your ego when facing each challenge in life is necessary for ego transcendence. Calmly and patiently being vigilant to each challenge as soon as it arises, will allow the challenge to play itself out, and eventually dissolve. Your only concern should be what is happening now, in the present moment.
Every thought you have is a simple form of energy. When negative thoughts are allowed to accumulate, they fester, intensify and become emotional in nature. If ignored or denied over time, these dark emotions tend to cling to our psyche, becoming tar-like and parasitical. Negative thoughts and emotions that arise from time to time are shamed by the ego and therefore denied or repressed altogether. The more you repress this negative self, the darker and denser it becomes.
Everything in nature evolves. Life was once a single-celled organism. In fact, for most of the past four billion years, life on Earth consisted of the microorganism and nothing more. After bacteria, algae, and fungi formed, evolution leaped forward, manifesting as the dinosaur which prospered for about 165 million years. The reptiles, turtles, and birds of today are all that’s left from the Dinosaur Age.
“Do not judge others, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn others, or it will all come back against you. Forgive others, and you will be forgiven.” — Luke 6:37
Most people are not aware just how dangerous their opinions can be. There are two types of opinions. The first type I refer to as an “egoic opinion” and constitutes the high majority of all opinions. The second type is “non-egoic” and is the opinion type of the self-realized.
