If you have a heavy pain-body, you’ll probably be attracting mental bullies to you like a bar magnet to steel. They will seek you out, come up to you out of nowhere, yell at you from across the street, send hateful emails to you, and this will all happen despite the fact that you do everything in your power to keep out of sight and “fly underneath the radar.”
The more abusive strangers you attract, the more you’d wish that no one would notice you. You simply want the world to leave you alone. But it won’t matter how much you try to lay low because like a fox that can pick up the scent of a rabbit a hundred feet a way, the mental bully will inevitably seek out its prey for it to feed on. If you have noticed an ongoing pattern like this in your life where people whom you may or may not know consistently make negative, derisive comments that hurt you deeply, then you are truly ready to heal. Your emotional body has become over sensitive to the abuse and that is a good thing. Becoming acutely aware of this negative pattern of attraction is the first stage of pain-body transcendence.
The specific frequency of the pain-body can only attract to it the same like frequency. This is a very important lesson to learn. If you are attracting these abusive people into your life then it is not simply by random chance. There’s no such thing. There’s a reason and that reason is your own frequency of energy.
So, how do you change this negative vibration? The solution is simple but not effortless. It is acknowledging the negative patterns of your own mind and the negative thoughts that replay in your mind that are directed toward other people. Once you can identify these thoughts as they surface, you will begin to become conscious of your own judgment toward others at its origin. It is this incessant oozing of negative thoughts toward others that is the smoking gun for your own abuse and the reason for your attracting the mental bullies into your life.
When you become cognizant of your own angry thoughts toward others when they surface, you will no longer be judging others. Instead, you’ll be watching your pain-body parasite in action. This will mark a turning point in your spiritual awakening. As the thoughts come and you observe them, you may want to ask yourself, “Do I still want to be an angry person?” Letting go of the negative thoughts that you’ve had since you experienced your primal wound in childhood is they key to transcendence. Forgiveness toward those who have hurt you is your spiritual challenge now.
Pain-body transcendence takes time, however, because the patterns of negative thoughts have been there your entire life. You haven’t noticed the angry thoughts before because you and your thoughts were one. As you separate yourself from them you will find them cropping up less and less. Then you’ll begin to notice that you will no longer be bothered by abusive people. Instead, you’ll be attracting loving, caring, and peaceful people to you. And I think that this is where you would much rather be.
Personal Life Coach, Jason Lincoln Jeffers is the founder of The Art of Transformation, a company with a mission to teach Spiritual Enlightenment to the world. His Personal Life Coaching practice uniquely combines spiritual wisdom with ego transcendence, holistic wellness coaching, predictive astro-analysis, pain-body counseling, heart-brain manifestation, and relationship coaching.