Online Life Coaching – The Law of Attraction

The law of attraction is just as real as gravity. One of the main things we desire in our lives is to be loved. Online dating memberships have grown exponentially in the last decade because of people in search of their “soul mate.” From childhood, we are pre-programmed to believe that finding that perfect mate will make our lives complete and whole. But the law of attraction works against us when we live according to this belief.

When you feel that you are incomplete and in need of someone in your life to complete you, then you will naturally attract someone who feels the same way. Your co-dependent half-self will automatically attract another co-dependent half-self into a relationship that is mostly ego-based. And the harder you look for someone the more you say to the universe, “I am desperate. I am needy. I am lacking.”

Making yourself available, or “being open” to meeting that special partner is not the same as desperately trying to meet someone. Obviously at some point you will have to take action in order to get to know someone. There’s nothing inherently wrong with joining an online dating site or going to social events. The difference is where you are within your Self. If you are a “date-aholic” whose frequently finding faults and “little quirks that annoy you” in everyone you date, then you’ll only be projecting your own unaddressed issues on to a constant stream of life-partner rejects. And complaining about how “crazy” this person was or how “dull” that date was only guarantees another replay of it in the future.

Because the law of attraction brings to us faster what we emotionally project outward, the more we talk about our failure to find a soul mate, the more we will attract the same results in the future. If you really want to attract your soul mate, then the first thing to do is stop talking about your failures. When you find yourself repeating things such as, “I’ve gone three years without a relationship,” or, “I keep meeting nut-jobs or wackos,” or, “All the good ones are already taken,” or, “Nobody loves me for me,” or “I always meet guys who are emotionally unavailabe,” then that’s exactly what the universe will keep serving up for you.

Part of becoming a whole, complete, and independent person is becoming aware of how powerful your thoughts are. When you don’t realize that you’re constantly creating your own reality then you’re sure to allow your thoughts to attract people to you don’t want. Becoming still, being patient, and taking the time to love your Self and fulfill your own needs are all necessary requirements for attracting your soul mate to you. Like attracts like, and loving, enlightened, and independent people attract to themselves other loving, enlightened, and independent people.

In 2007, Online Life Coach, Jason Lincoln Jeffers founded The Art of Transformation, a company devoted to teaching Self Realization to the masses. His Online Life Coachingphone/Skype practice uniquely combines spiritual wisdom with self transcendence, holistic health, life path astrology, shadow work, pain-body work, heart-brain intention, the power of presence, and the law of attraction.

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